Criticism is sulfuric acid for love. After 40+ years of conducting research on what makes relationships last, Dr. John Gottman has this to say about it. Personally, I like to say that criticism is a weapon that we use against the people we love the most. Urban Family founder, Shantel Patu, describes the abuse perpetrated by a […]
Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity. French Philosopher Simone Weil gave us this understanding in Gravity and Grace, published posthumously in 1952. She also went on to say that when we practice paying attention to even the smallest and most minute aspects of our lives, we reap the deepest rewards of our humanity. Weil […]
There, I’ve said it. I’ve broken the great unspoken taboo of business, and it’s both exhilarating and risky. And instead of tip-toeing around it, I confess: self-love is at the heart of my corporate coaching success. A Disconnect. I have four separate parts to my coaching practice and, while wellbeing, education, and parenting go hand-in-hand, my corporate […]
Reading is an adventure, and adventures are about going places you’ve never been. This is both exciting and reassuring at the same time. Herein lies the magic of reading. Great books take us places where we wouldn’t venture on our own, and they do so from the safety of our immediate surrounds. But the deep sense […]
Teach happiness too. I don’t mean to pick on private schools; I believe that they have the resources to provide many opportunities for children but lack, in many cases, a longer-term vision and plan for our children’s well-being. But this is not the fault of schools or their administrators. It is us: a certain class […]
I See You. Parenting is painful, especially if we try to force and control it. On the other hand, it’s exuberant and transformational if we stay centered in love and trust. Easier said than done, I know. It begins with an artist’s eye and a good question: how do I see my children as an […]
There’s a reason Einstein said, “imagination is more important than knowledge.” He didn’t mean that knowledge was unimportant; what he meant is that the way we use our imaginations is fundamentally more important. Most people have no idea how powerful their imaginations are. Over the years that I’ve been teaching people the principles of Neuro-Linguistic […]
Turning Doubt into Awareness When it seems that nothing is going your way and your path is blocked at every turn, how do you react? Do you feel ugh, “why me?” without even thinking about it? Do you consider all of the things that are going wrong or do you stop yourself and ask: what […]
I am here. During this time of physical distancing, we have the chance to deepen our love and closeness with the people inside our “bubbles,” in particular. Physically, I’m at home with my family for the foreseeable future, but it’s important to ask: is the rest of me here, too? Am I 100% present right […]
I See You These are three of the most powerful words in the English language. Why is this? Because as human beings we have a deep need to know that we exist. Another way of saying it is that we matter – to ourselves and others. Regardless of our race, religious beliefs, competencies, or shortcomings, […]
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